THE INVISIBLE PEN
ASK YOURSELF
What if you could sit with mom, dad, an uncle — or anyone dear to you who has passed — what would you ask them?
WHY I DO THIS
My father's mind slipped away long before he did. The information pipeline closed early — the stories I never asked for, the questions I never got around to.
My mother lived with her mind sharp until the end. I thought I had time. I didn't ask her either.
When they were finally gone, so were the answers.
We don't anticipate the inevitable while our loved ones are here. We just see them as being there. And then it's too late.
This is why I do what I do.
SERVICES
For families who want more than a memorial — who feel their loved one lived a life worth telling. I sit with your parent, grandparent, or elder and shape their story into a written record: not just what happened, but what it meant.
For people who've gathered real wisdom through their work, their losses, or their years — and want it written down before it's lost. I help you find your voice on the page and shape what you've been carrying into words that reach others.
For clinicians, care providers, and community organizations serving older adults — whose voice needs to reach the families who need them. I write with the warmth and clarity your work deserves.
MY APPROACH
I write for meaning, not for volume. Every story I take on has to answer three questions:
Not just who someone was, but what their life came to mean.
The family, yes — but often something more: a community, a generation, readers who never met the person but need what the story teaches.
Legacy, wisdom, witness, redemption, a gift for the grandchildren who will one day want to know.
If your project has clear answers to these three questions, we'll do meaningful work together.
A NOTE
Sometimes the person is gone, or no longer able to speak. That doesn't always mean the story is lost.
If your family still holds the material — letters, photographs, records, and the memories of those who knew them — there may still be a way to gather it into something lasting.
Write to me and we can talk about what's possible.
STAY IN TOUCH
Occasional letters from The Invisible Pen. No noise, no schedule. Just a note when there's something worth sharing — an essay, a reflection, a story from the work.
CONTACT
If you have a project in mind — a life story, an essay, or writing for an organization you care about — I'd be glad to hear from you.
hello@dejonpen.comWrite me a note. I read every message myself.